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May 23 couple's fight, is like putting money ina piggybank --- 浅谈夫妻之间可持续性发展问题现在多争一次,以后就少争一次。
我们都需要更加理解对方,变得成熟 经过争吵,我们更加了解,理解对方,从而变得成熟 所以现在争吵过了,以后就多一些幸福时光 就好像多花一些钱,就多得到一些好东西一样 争吵往往是我们为了未来的幸福时光付出的代价。
所以,我和老公讨论出一个方法: 以后吵架,最后是谁缺乏道理,谁就要写张支票放进存钱罐里。 不仅为未来创造了幸福,还为幸福创造了经济基础 just like when we spend more money we get more "good stuff", sometimes, fighting between couples is just wat it takes for a harmonious happy future. so my lao gong and i figured out a good solution: everytime we fight, who has less point in the end shud write a check and put it in our piggy bank. so we not only creat a "brighter happier harmonious future", but also a economic base to support it ^_^~ May 21 20分钟+20分钟为了一件小事,我们争了40分钟。 老公说,太划不来,20分钟就应该够了 我说,只要解决了问题,40分钟也值得。 老公强调说,20分钟时问题就已经解决了。 那么,我想,后20分钟是为了平抚为解决问题留下的伤口和为了妥协而留下不情愿的纠结~~ 哈哈。。
有多少争吵是为了“大事” 我看多半是小事。 我看还是为了小事争一争比较好。
免得小事成了大事,反倒不好争了,说不定没等争出来就散了~~
所以我说还是要争。争完记得互相安抚。 前20分钟,后20分钟都值得。 May 08 重新包装海南蜜月照片^-^~April 22 甜蜜的四月 上海-杭州-北京March 13 思念你的日子 - deidicated to my dearest lao gong常常在起床前,想起你,想起上次你也在我枕边; 常常在吃饭时想起你,想起上次吃饭时你坐在我对面; 常常在说话时想起你,想起上次我们说话时你的笑脸; 想你是一件很平常的事,是一件我每天都做的事,因为你常常不在我身边。 ~ 我希望,太平洋可以变小,小到你一步就能从加拿大跨到中国; 我希望,等待你的时间可以缩短,短到下一秒你已经在我眼前; 如果,世界并不能改变, 我希望,和你团聚的日子里,我不需要再思念。 February 16 失去一些,得到一些失去了一些珍爱的东西,不能挽回,很伤心。
生命中还有什么珍贵的东西会逐渐失去呢?
生命中还有什么珍贵的东西我仍然拥有呢?
与其后悔当初没有充分珍惜享用失去的珍爱,不如开始珍惜身边现存的。
什么东西能够永恒呢?时间。其他都随着时间消逝。
消逝是一件多么正常的事,所以又何必悲哀。
活在时间里的人,适应时间的规律,一辈子就是这样,所以要珍惜眼前。
Nothing exists forever except time..
August 29 Paula & Liping de story VI.. - Liping's feature~8/29, it happened like a month ago before i write down this story
so i was in Liping's car and liping was driving..
Paula - Do you know there are some kind of nice cars that have many cool features?
Liping - what kind of features?
Paula - skylights, spring under the seats, you can secretly shoot anyone right out of your car when get tired of him..
Liping - yeah, my car does have that kind of feature.
Paula - really? show me.
Liping - wait. let me just strech my right leg...
......
do you get it...hehee.. August 23 shopped something interesting~~ 6:40pmLocation: science and technology musuem
Item 1: a pair of fake"crocs". Price: 50 RMB including the flower :P Description:Fake, yet freaking comfortable, so why would i buy the real one when the fake one is already this perfect???~ Item 2: telephone wire hair band~ Price: 1 RMB Description: Look cute~ goes with any hair color; There were some "fruit-candy-colored" ones too, all look cute~~ August 17 好吧,也写写我和傻猴子的故事 - 关于地球的自转我说,傻猴子,你从加拿大飞到上海,如果atlantic ocean就很慢,如果飞跃pacific ocean 就会比从上海返回加拿大会快一些。那么你会去的时候可以选择飞跃atlantic.
傻猴子说,错了,反过来才是对的。
我说,你错了,根据地球自转的方向,你从加拿大飞过来正好和地球是相向而行,所以快。
傻猴子说,不对,根据地球自转的方向,当飞机在空中不动的时候,就等于在地面动了一样,所以,我从上海回加拿大才快。
我说,不对,地球是自西向东转的,所以当飞机停留在上空时,等于在地球上自东向西移动了,所以从加拿大飞上海快。
傻猴子说,不对,我回来快,去时慢,机票上是这样写的。
那我们看机票!!(果然从上海返回加拿大少2小时。。shit)。。飞机速度不一样,要么机型也不一样!
傻猴子傻笑,我说吧~~机型是一样的啦~~
机型肯定不一样,速度也肯定不一样,不公平! AND THE EARTH MOVES FROM EAST TO WEST!!!
傻猴子:hahahaha~!!! the earth moves the way you want, i dont care~~~~Queen lei lei~~~
我:tsssssssssssss...
傻猴子:pfffffffffff.....Queen lei lei
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今天我把一楼高人讲的道理讲给傻猴子听,
傻猴子竟然不屑一顾地回答了一个字:pffffff
这个男人~~死不认输~~tssssss
cont..Paula he Liping de story VI重新开一个,写第六个故事。
Liping he Paula de story VI --- wat would you do if you couldnt sleep? 8/17/08
有一天晚上,到了该睡觉的时间了,丽平穿着背心裤衩在屋里踱步。。
丽平说,我睡不着!
是不是饿了?劳资也饿了,劳资要吃点东西!
丽平说,靠,这样都可以!
我是胖子,我要吃!
丽平说,你知道,我小时候晚上睡不着的时候会吃什么吗?
我想了想。。白糖水泡馍馍!!!
丽平:是白糖水跑米饭!
(哇靠,我心里想,我还真是有灵感啊,竟然吓懵对了50%)
我小时候晚上睡不着就吃白糖水泡馍馍哒~~
丽平问,那你小时候是谁给你弄这个吃的呀?
我奶奶!
丽平,哈哈,我是我爷爷!
俨然,我看到了另外一个我,一个瘦型的我。
我原来经常在想,要是我世界上找到了另外一个我,一个克隆的我,我会不会喜欢,或会不会厌恶,会不会嫉妒,会不会排挤。。
现在看到丽平,我觉得我找到了跟我有80%像的人,也许有些夸张了,60%吧。。感觉挺好的,很熟悉,很亲切。
周末,买了点小礼物给我的两个小室友,为了纪念我们住在一起的缘分。现在保密,等送了再把照片贴上来:) July 25 Paula & Liping de story I / II / III / IV / VStory V a tale of two faded pink towels August 15
写着写着,不知不觉写到第五个故事了。
我有一条粉红色的毛巾,用了很久了,一直被我挂在阳台的衣架上,颜色越晒越淡,最后晒得脸最初什么颜色都看不出来了,只是稍稍透着一点粉红。 后来有一天,我发现阳台上在同样的位置并排挂了两条粉红色的毛巾,样子长得差不多,都是旧旧的,毛喳喳的,一条边上有一些花纹。 我想,可能是我原来买过两条差不多的粉色毛巾吧,唉~褪色褪得都认不出来哪条是哪条了。 然后有一天丽平问我,外面那两条毛巾哪条是你的,我斩钉截铁,不假思索地说,两条都是我的! 后来有一天丽平又说,奇怪,我的一条粉红毛巾,找了很久,怎么找不着了啦? 我想了想,然后说,丽平,外面两条,是不是有一条是你哒? 丽平说,我看看。左看右看,说,好像就是我的吧。 我拉起一条旧的,说,这个旧,肯定是我的;丽平说,我看这个才像我的。。
有可能。
啊!终于找到啦! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Story IV A Total Made-up Word ... August 04
so we were discussing wat to eat for supper.. Paula: we cook... Liping: cook... Paula: I cook... Liping: en... ... ... Liping: let's see what's still left in the icebox and decide later Paula: Icebox...? haha...Brilliant~! ( I thought it was a total made-up word) Liping: I didnt make up the word, people use it instead of fridge sometimes. Paula: Then you are not THAT brilliant YET. Wait till you make up a word and I'll call you brlliant. hehe.. Liping: That's easy: White eat Paula: hahaa...Brilliant ~! can't slim down~~!
if you don't understand it, you must dont speak Chinese..hahaa..
Fin~~ Story V will be coming along as life moves on.... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Story III 原来。。Actually... July 25
周五小聚,roomie, ex-roomie, me...吃饭 通过讨论, 我们分别学到一些知识: 1。生煎包, 原来是生着被煎熟的。。哇。。原来生着也可以煎熟呀,怪不得叫生煎包呐!--- roomie & me 2。生姜原来生不出大蒜啊,只能生出姜哒!--- ex-roomie
所以我说,成为室友,是一种缘分啊,大家都是一类人~哇哈哈~~
Fin~~ story IV will be coming along as life moves on.... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Story II 数猪
每一天早上丽萍开车和Paula一起上班,一路上,丽萍都要干一件事:数猪。 所有乱过马路的,乱骑车的,乱开车的,都是猪。。
丽萍一只都不落下滴数:一只猪。。又是一只猪。。。又是一只猪。。。又是一只猪。。
有一天,Paula告诉丽萍,其实可以不数猪啦,可以改数gay呀。 所有乱过马路的,乱骑车的,乱开车的,都是gay。。 Paula说,in costa rican, Gay = playo (plaio) 从此以后,丽萍再也不数猪了,改数plaio.. plaio plaio plaio...一群plaio...
the end... story III will be coming along as life moves on....
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Paula he Liping de story I one day in July
One evening, paula and liping were walking on a quiet lane where there were no people but only cars parked along the side of road... Liping started to shake her fists to the air and yelled at the cars: fuck off, fuck off!!! All the cars fuck off!!! Cars didn’t move. Liping yelled again: fuck off fuck off!! Cars remained stay and put.
Liping then came up with a brilliant idea, which was to let chubby paula roll to the cars and hit them away. So she told paula. And then Paula came up with an even more brilliant idea, which was Paula sneaks away before liping does that.
The end… story II will be coming along as life moves on
July 04 11 rules pf bill gates - 很有道理,所以贴上来觉得很有道理啊,很有感触。
RULE 1
Life is not fair - get used to it. RULE 2 The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself. RULE 3 You will NOT make 40 thousand dollars a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice president with car phone, until you earn both. RULE 4 If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. He doesn't have tenure. RULE 5 Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping they called it Opportunity. RULE 6 If you mess up,it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them. RULE 7 Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you are. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room. RULE 8 Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life has not. In some schools they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as many times as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life. RULE 9 Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you find yourself. Do that on your own time. RULE 10 Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs. RULE 11 Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one. June 18 airplane diary2008 June 17th Montréal time 8:30 am At Montréal airport
You've boarded for almost 30 mins, sha hou zi, I miss u so much, I miss u very much, when I think of you, I dun have much else to say than I miss you so much. I love you.
From today on, we'll be apart for another 3-4 months, I hope you wont be too sad thinking of me all the time.
Now im about to board, see you later.
11:41 am - 13:50 pm At Toronto airport
Bought Ralph Lauren perfume again at tax free store, since you like its smell on me. My current one is about to be finished.
I guess you will still need to fly for 2.5hrs until you reach vancouver. poor sha hou zi, hope you are all well. im thinking about you, are you thinking about me too/
don’t work too hard on your 3 books you brought, your eyes cant work that long since you havent changed your stupid contact lens in time.
sha hou zi, I miss you.
this time I don’t feel so lonely, you know why? coz I have the ring with me
Next time I see you, we'll have rings for each other. don’t worry.
I love you
my flight is delayed from 13:00 to 14:10, so I've been wondering around in Toronto airport since 11:00.
not sure if it is becoz im already use to wait for you for 8hrs everyday. now, being apart from you for almost 5 hrs, I still feel ok. Guess I will be very sad when I cant find you at nite tonite.
im use to look at your face when I turn around in bed, im not sure how I will spend this couple of nights alone in my bed.
p.s.: the tim horton here doesn’t accept credit card, I have no cash, so I cant buy any, anyway, I wanted sth from tim horton was all becoz I miss you.
still miss you a lot...
13:40 pm ( Toronto time 10:40 am)
Boarding now, guess you are at vancouver
22:00 pm Montréal time in airplane to shanghai
Almost 10:00, 2 mins to 10:00. guess you are about to get home. hao xiang ni hao xiang ni, I cry a lot when I miss you.
crying frequency= missing you freqency
im writing this dairy, let me call it airplane diary, hehe..nothing much else to say other than abt missing you so much.
last time you told me you had watched all the movies on the airplane but still not reached shanghai yet. this time, I counted, 14hrs flight. about 7 movies to watch, I have finished 4 already, so 3 more.
<<Penelope>> <<the other Boleyn girl>> <<CJ7>> (Chinese movie) << absolutely maybe>>
p.s. they offer too much food on the plane, cant finish. my tears taste very salty, have I had too much salt recently?
10:38 pm if you are already home, will u feel lonely? will you miss me? sha hou zi, I cant help but crying calling your name in my heart. Today is a long day for you, are you very tired? there will be no me annoying you tonite, will you enjoy your one moment of peace and quiet:P?
don’t wat time it is now, must be around 11:00 pm
when you've taken shower, you will be going to sleep as usual. tonite, you are sleeping alone, pls don’t cry when you miss me, I may cry tho.
I always remember the yesterday afternoon when u got home from work, you said to me: I left work around 3:30, I've had enough! and then you hug me in your arms, very tightly...
11:58 pm
Asleep already? it's 12:00 pm. pls don’t be sad, don’t cry, don’t miss me too much.
I miss you so much.....3 more hrs to go..2 more movies
03:49 am (all Montréal time)
It's almost 4:00, im sure you are in bed and asleep. I guess you get up around 9:00 am and come home around 6:00pm today.
will email you as soon as I get home tonite.
I love you sha hou zi.
June 14 今天是这么过的早上傻猴子起来了,把我也搞醒了,没看几点钟,反正肯定很早。傻猴子每天7点上班,4点下班,为了多陪陪我。
傻猴子刷牙洗澡完了,转回到房间里,亲亲我,左一下右一下,上一下下一下,说我要上班了,你好好睡,今天在家好好玩,要记得锻炼身体哦。
每天早上都是这样,每天早上我都舍不得他走,他一走我一个人在家,自己找乐子,说是找乐子,真是没什么比他在家更好了。
每天早上都是这样的,过一天少一天,假期要结束了,我马上就要回国了。
。。。。。。。
昨天早上我哭了,因为傻猴子早上说我浪费了5分钟搂他的时间,我说,我来搂你你把握手甩开了,还好意思说。。气死我了。。。傻猴子说,好吧,对不起对不起。说完起床去洗澡了。我突然很感伤,想到没过几天就要回去了,我想尽一切办法多和他呆一会,竟然说我浪费了5分钟搂他的时间,我怎么舍得浪费5分钟呢,一秒钟我都浪费不起,想想就想哭,我也刷地从床上下来,准备冲出房间去抱抱他,他正好回房间来,我扑到他怀里,一下忍不住就哭了。。。稀里哗啦。。。
傻猴子最怕我哭。。我一哭他就哭,比我哭的还凶。。所以他一直很反对我哭。
傻猴子问我:怎么啦怎么啦,你怎么啦。你说呀。。
我支支吾吾,话也说不清,我说。。我。。我。。能抱着你的时间没多少了。。55555555555。。。。说了两次傻猴子才听清。
傻猴子没等我说完眼睛早就红了,眼泪闪闪的跟我说:别哭别哭,pls pls pls,千万不要哭,哪里没多少时间了,还有好几天呢。说着他自己也忍不住了。。别哭别哭,你一哭我也会哭的(其实他已经哭了,个傻猴子,说你傻还不承认)
他抱着我坐下来,说,其实我就是一直不去想,一想我就会忍不住很难过。。你这样想,下次你来的时候就永远不用走了,对吧,不要难过,我知道的。。
好吧,也对,下次我来加拿大的时候就不用担心离开了,算你会想,我一高兴,不怎么哭了。。呵呵。。
。。。。。。。
今天早上,像往常一样,他又要出门上班了。他前脚出门,我后脚一骨碌爬起来,把房间的正对街道的窗子打开,看到傻猴子一颠一颠的(跟腱太好的缘故,所以走路一起一伏的,傻傻的)朝他的车子走去,傻傻的,很自信的样子,大概傻人都有自信吧,哈哈
我在窗口看着他,巴巴的,然后看着他开着车经过窗口,走了,也不知这傻猴子看到我没有。突然觉得自己很像电影里那些一天到盼归来夫归的可悲少妇们,傻傻为丈夫做这做那,默默无闻,到头来也不知道自己丈夫确吉不在乎也不知道。当然,我的傻猴子比他们的老公好,哈哈。
今天家里没什么干粮了,我也不想做饭了,晚上反正出去和他两个叔叔碰头吃饭,应该会吃得蛮好的,反正早上我也吃多了,不饿 一晃又要3点了,傻猴子4点到家,我还没锻炼,马上要去锻炼了。我们说好要为婚礼有个超好的身材而奋斗的!傻猴子,我爱你。
June 13 daily activities this month
June 10 哇哈哈。。打牌赢钱了 $25CAD周末,我们回到victoriaville去会小赛的几个朋友,顺便帮dominic庆祝生日。
吃饭时小塞很体贴的问我,今天晚上我们play poker,可以吗,你会吗,不嫌烦吧?
我说poker? YEA! 我会我会,我要玩!
Poker...不知道在大家印象中是啥。。我们今天晚的poker是赌场常见的这种,电影电视里常出现的这种,007皇家赌场里面出现过的这种,friends里面出现的这种:每人手里两张牌,dealer一共在桌上发5张牌。看谁最后赢。
小塞略显惊讶得看着我,我卟噔卟噔地直点头,恩恩,我真的会玩。
吃完晚饭后我们来到Dennie家。
已经开局了,牌桌上3个人:dominic,frank,还有一个小型胖子,不太熟;大胖子dennie的座位是空的,因为他忙里忙外的招待我们,顾不上打牌,于是我就跳进了他的椅子,说我帮他打。结果,我把他的chips输光了。。。哈哈哈哈哈。。。
没关系。。热身先。。
开第二局,我和小塞各玩一边,一共5个人玩:我,小塞,dominic, 胖子Dennie,和刚才的赢家Frank...
要赢这种牌有个关键技巧:bluffing---诈!
所谓的诈是一种心理战术,无论手上牌好牌坏,脸上都要显出轻松的样子,同时大方抛出钱币,喊:im in..and i'll raise..这是即使手里有好牌的人都可能被吓倒,有的人会犹豫的check,有的人干脆fold--放弃了,因为大家会以为你手里肯定有好牌,赢得可能性很大。。其实。。你是诈诈他们的。。
只要会诈,啥破牌都有可能赢!
哇哈哈,我那个诈呀。。我诈了一局又一局,骗了一把有一把的chips...越诈越勇~~最后把除小塞以外的那3个男人全部赢光光..哇哈哈哈哈~~~怀里的chips..那是一把有一把呀。。。门前的已经装不下了,要借别人的地盘装我的chips...其他人是那个羡慕啊~~~我那个爽啊~~~哇哈哈哈~~dominic说我和小塞是一伙的,我们谁赢了都是一样的,会分赃,哈哈。。本来嘛~~
我趁洗牌的空 对小塞说,你不诈是赢不了的,会丢失至少60%赢的机会, 不,是70%。小赛再次用惊讶,疑惑又稍有崇拜的眼神看着我说,你学过??哇哈哈,哪里哪里,本人经验而以。。
后来小赛也有转机了,不小心成了二东家了。。
最后dominic想一战决胜负,把他所有的chips都压上了,跟我决一死战,我有的是chips,当然in了。然后我们把手里的牌摊在桌上,dealer一张一张地翻牌,翻到第5张,我那两张牌竟然full house了,哈哈~~胜利女神雅典娜在我这边,mmwah
小塞说,哇,我从来没赢过诶,想不到今天能赢。。我自豪地说。。。that's becoz you have me now。。小塞说。。probably。。我说absolutely!
我们最后赢了$25,其实应该是15块,因为要除去我和小塞每人的5块钱(每玩一局大家每人出5块钱是个意思)。
好爽啊~第一次作为一对couple胜利了!
我和小塞是一伙的!!我是Poker Queen~!
哈哈哈。。今天晚上我睡觉都要笑醒了
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记6月9日美国东部时间 May 14 中国,一定要坚强!今年是不平凡的一年,是奥运年,也是灾难多发的一年。 首先是大年的雪灾,然后是藏独事件,接着火炬事件,再到现在的地震。。2008年的中国伴随着大大小小的灾难行进着。 现在,每天每时每刻都关注着新闻,网络,电视,时时刻刻的更新。。看到死伤人数不断增加,心情十分沉痛。。 对于这次的地震,中国响应的十分迅速,全国各地地纷纷开始作相应的救援工作。看到电视上的救援场面,我十分感动,这些场面让我感到中国人的坚强,团结与互助精神以及中国人心中不会泯灭的爱国的精神。 现在,中国显然处在一个脆弱的时候,需要帮助的时候;不要忘记的是中国同时处在一个最需要坚强的时候。 学过一些business continuity的知识后,我很认同其中的一段话: Crisis is disaster but also opportunity Weak companies die in it Good companies survive it Great companies respond to it, learn from it and improve! 这段话,我想,对于国家同样适用, 弱国在灾难中衰亡 中等的国家在灾难中存活 强国能够对于灾难做出响应,从灾难中找出学习并进行改进,最终更加强盛! 我希望,在每一个爱国的中国人的帮助下,中国能够将危及变为机遇, 首先成功的响应灾难(保护人民生命安全人民财产,以及国家资源,财产安全),其次学习在将来避免和响应灾难的更好方法,成为一个灾难击不垮的更加强大的世界大国! May 08 解脱,重生!我又活了!! 啊~~!!长舒一口气啊!! 终于又与世界联通了!!!(我是移动) 自从丢了包包之后一直很郁闷~整日茶不思饭不想,失眠健忘,焦头烂额 头上长了无数包,才明白为什么古人说焦头烂额) 今天。。。终于解脱了!!! 胜利了!! 我又活过来了!! 我又有胃口了!! 我又能笑了!! 我与世界再次联通了!! 哦耶!! April 24 三件事春意盎然的早晨: 昨天早上,雨过天晴,走在小区里的人行道上。道路两旁栽满了花花草草,真是可爱极了。粉红色的茶花树粉粉嫩嫩的,昨夜的雨水还挂在花瓣上,看上去晶莹而柔美,如果能用这些花瓣做件衣服肯定美死了,穿上去肯定会像仙女一样。茶树下的小灌木绿油油的,叶子上面也挂满小雨珠,看上去干净清新。这条小路由青砖铺成,昨晚的一场雨让很多花瓣飘落在了这条小路上,像在青石路上铺一条花毯。。让这条路也显得“仙气”十足的,就好像迎接神仙下凡似的。。迎面的微风不时把更多的花瓣吹落在地上,身旁绿油油的灌木丛上,像下花瓣雨一样。我们一行三个人,就一路迎着微风,迎着花瓣,踏着青砖“花毯”去上班了。这个早晨,真是浪漫呀!
昨天下午遇见一个小姑娘,以下用英文讲: Met a girl that I'd known for two years or so. she's young, was born in 1985, and now she's pregnant. Her story is like this: when i first met her, she didn't have a bf, she probably never had relationship before. A year ago she met a young guy by the first time match making, and they fell in love at the first sight. Soon, they happily got married. One month later, the girl got pregnant, and now she's expecting her baby in two month's time. Story ends. i was amazed by the plain fact that how quick she made the progress, and how simple and natural this young couple came upon with their life decisions, and also how happy the girl is. And how struggling i am with my life now. life can be this simple, happiness can be this easy to get. Just do it when u want to do sth, and happiness comes right along. There may never be a "right" time to do things, coz the time u want to do it is already the time u did it.
前天晚上看了一节目: 讲春季头发扮靓。结果,昨晚就跑回家自己染了个头发。女人,真是禁不住诱惑啊~~感慨一下。。惭愧一下。。 今早起床照镜子,自我感觉染后跟没染差不多。。竟然还是相当满意。。嘻嘻。。我就不多感慨了。 February 13 上新照片啦,快来看呀!今年春节是和傻猴子在武汉过的。
傻猴子通过了家里的面试,很高兴。
主考官和hiring manager都很高兴。
于是拍了些照片留念。
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谢谢朋友们对我们的关心和支持,hoho..我们节后组织聚餐!! January 13 男人啊~~~我的bf, 性本色啊~~俗, 我晕给我的bf看了一个video,历时一分钟,情节是一位金发女郎,身穿咖啡色紧身低胸短裙在街上潇洒地走,然后无数男人回头,including men with wives walking side by side...so lame..
然后我就问bf, low chest shot tight skirt是不是你喜欢的女性着装类型?他回答,一个字,exactly!!
于是我有感而发:
晕兮晕兮, 买了这么多衣服,没一件靠普的;每年时尚那么变幻多样,男人的欣赏类型竟然是如此以不变应万变。
俗啊~~这就是男人的品位; 性本色矣,古人说的真对。
总结一下,根据我说的道理,大家想想,所谓男人中的男人是什么样的男人呢?
答案是,品味最俗,最坚持性本色的男人。
说笑说笑啊。
最后我要声明一下,我喜欢的就是这种男人,我爱我的bf
嘻嘻。。 January 04 女人啊,我~~养伤啊,购物过多。。每次血拼回来,都对自己说,这月到此为止,没有budget了。然而,一到周末,就不小心又主动跑去“作战” 了。
我发现,衣服啊,鞋啊,就是不能试啊,一试就脱不下来了啊,粘在身上了。。
我脸红啊~~相当脸红,竟然连写两篇关于血拼的帖子。。唉,小女子我内心脆弱,挡不住衣服的诱惑。
女人啊女人,我只能说,每一次的shopping,都以“血”的事实证明了我女人的本性。
我爱shopping...hehe..
December 08 商场的确如战场 ~~ Shopping Mall is Battle Field心又痒痒了,陈表妹来沪之际 ,安排一场轰轰烈烈的shopping。(hehe...good justification)女人永远抵挡不了这种战场的诱惑。
早上10点,敲室友的房门,
我问:早上好象听到你跟蓓蓓说昨晚没睡好啊
室友:是呀,怎么也睡不着,早上才咪了一小会儿。
我问:哦,那算了,本来想问问你要不要一起逛街的,那么算了,你多睡会吧 。
睡眼惺忪的室友这时突然诡秘微笑,眼中放出一丝光亮:你们几点去逛街。。。?(hehehe...小妞忍不住了吧?)
两人爆发出一阵会意的傻笑。
我说:大概11点吧 ,呵呵,走之前我来叫你,你起得来我们就一起去,嘿嘿。
室友:嘿嘿嘿。。。好呀好呀。
10:30,室友的房门打开,室友自己出来了。
室友:嘿嘿。。我起来了,我要跟你们去逛街!!反正我也睡不着~~(another nice justification)
于是,上午11点许 ,3小妞踏上了shopping之路。
要打仗,一定要有兵器;途中路过“招商军械库” 和“工商军械库”取军械。
然后来到坐落在陆家嘴的某著名XXmall, our ultimate battle field~~~!!!我们的终极战场!
3人很快进入战斗。
现在的商场模式很是了得,都设计的跟超市似的,衣服裤子鞋子挂的墙上地上到处都是,满眼皆是猎物的感觉。3位女战士们顿时充满斗志,决心要战个畅快淋漓。
战斗的残酷场景就不细致描述了,总之每一“刀”每一“枪”都很让人心痛,各种面值的兵器在10层楼的杀场里洒得一塌糊涂遍地都是。
但是要有所得,就要付出代价,3为女战士深谙此理。
最后,战役终于结束,我们取得辉煌胜利,虽然遍体鳞伤,但是战果累累!!我们说:反正可以穿很长时间的,早晚都要买的。。(wat a great justification again~~:)
扛猎物回家。。
Moral of the story: 商场的确如战场。
December 04 wat makes a marriage workIt just inspired me when i was told the 3 elements of a "well-functioned" marriage, sounds cold huh..hehe.. let's just call it a good marriage then.
so wat do u think makes a marriage work?
There are LOVE, SEX, and MONEY. The absence of each element here will make a marriage not work so well.
Wat do u guys think? November 22 重温张爱玲-色戒,Reviewing Zhang Ai Ling-Lust & CautionIm not the kind of person who reads a lot, among all the books i read, i love fictions better; i dunno of many writers, among all the writers i know of, I love zhang Ai Ling the best.
I have read through almost all her works, by work, i mean fictions or novels, watever, and i love almost all of them. Usually when i love a book, i would try forget all abt the book when i finish it, so that i could read the book over and over and over again, and each time when i read it, it would feel like the first time, all the curiosity and excitement still come along:) and this is how i would enjoy a book.
About this one, Lust and Caution, im not sure whether i'v read it or not, altho the opening really looks familiar.. There're two possiblities: No.1, i'v read it and i loved it, and then i decided to forget abt it, so right now i dun remember it; No.2, i'v never read it before, but now i think i fall in love with it at the first sight, so i guess i would forget abt it later when i finish it..
Now it seems like i would forget abt the book anyway, so who cares whether i'v read it or not. wat really matters is that i do enjoy the book very much.
PS: i wrote this in english for some dumbhead's sake, otherwise i would have written it chinese
LOVE
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this is where u leave ur foot prints..
淑芳 柴wrote:
后来每每吃牛排,都会想起来小观园,那次的牛排真嫩、真多啊。。。
Jan. 31
Jadewrote:
蕾,听说你结婚了~送上我迟到的祝福啊~呵呵恭喜恭喜呀~
Oct. 10
淑芳 柴wrote:
那个人和姐姐,我也很满意哦。。。哈哈 姐姐节日快乐
Mar. 8
晓菡 曹wrote:
在sogo的标榜啦,那里水平很稳定哦,每个发型师都不错
Mar. 6
晓菡 曹wrote:
姐姐姐姐,我剪成短头发啦~~~~~嘿嘿
Feb. 28
晓菡 曹wrote:
姐姐姐姐姐姐 ,想你,亲亲,欧耶~~~~我初六回武汉你还在吗
Jan. 31
淑芳 柴wrote:
姐姐,你不用骂他,他再这样我狠狠心不理他就是了。。。
过年,不知道见不见得到你和方舟,因为我会回家。。。
Jan. 10
Miss Countrysidewrote:
通告:
今年物价上涨厉害,血拼时流血过多,养伤中。。
Jan. 2
晓菡 曹wrote:
ooo...just...with...xiao didi and xiao zhengzheng ...
Nov. 27
Miss Countrysidewrote:
那是相当多的化学作用,女人最好的美容就是LOVE~..hahaa...
and xiao chi chi...who did u watch it with :P hia hia hia....
Nov. 26
晓菡 曹wrote:
hiahia,i love Zhang’s works ,and the movie is really really really...pretty good one,and and Tang Wei did a good job in the movie.hiahia~~~~~
Nov. 25
淑芳 柴wrote:
看照片,觉得姐姐又变美了,是爱情的化学作用吧,哈哈
Nov. 25
Miss Countrysidewrote:
one of my friends told me she thought i must be pregnant to have this dream, which im not, hahaa...i need to be careful next time when i want to publish any of my dreams.
Nov. 9
Miss Countrysidewrote:
哈哈哈,你也很有想象力~!
Nov. 8
晓菡 曹wrote:
姐姐,据本大仙分析,做这个梦的人,正在急剧放射母爱情绪,并且或许,你该买洋娃娃回来玩玩了!哈哈哈!祝姐姐幸福快乐,美梦成真也可以,不过宝宝们之间的长相差异一定要大一点,不然我们认不清楚呀!!!吼吼
Nov. 8
晓菡 曹wrote:
呵呵,姐姐啊,首先:pp就是片片,就是照片,呵呵;然后,小可是俺的同事来着;最后呢,我觉得过年我们80%在武汉。吼吼吼吼!亲亲姐姐!
Oct. 27
淑芳 柴wrote:
小洋芋现在长在深圳航空公司,姐姐放心,他不是飞行员也不是空哨,他在地上工作,安全着呢
Oct. 27
Miss Countrysidewrote:
什么PP呀? ^_^
Oct. 25
晓菡 曹wrote:
xiao lei da jie jie ,can you see my “涕”and tear(涕儿)?because of your PP!吼吼
Oct. 23
Miss Countrysidewrote:
im expecting~~~chai chai xiao peng you..
Oct. 18
淑芳 柴wrote:
姐啊 看了你惊天地泣鬼神的照片 想你回来我讲给你我惊天地泣鬼神的生活哈
不过 我这几天病了 欧 还要复习某考试 怎四蛮造也~
Oct. 18
晓菡 曹wrote:
突然想听姐姐唱歌
Oct. 8
淑芳 柴wrote:
姐姐~ 我的SPACE里放了些你闻所未闻、见所未见、惊世骇俗、惊天动地的照片 快去看吧 哈哈哈哈
Sept. 28
jing fanwrote:
留个爪爪。。。我们经常见面 肉麻的话也就不说鸟~
Sept. 23
晓菡 曹wrote:
呵呵,姐姐啊,小迪迪也在忧愁呢——不知道怎么的,开始长点小肉肉了,哈哈~~~~
Sept. 22
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